I am so annoyed right now. If you’re my friend be my friend. Do the things that friends do and don’t pat yourself on the back or say “Hey, look what I did for you!” So what…that’s what you’re supposed to do – as a friend. If you’re my man then be my man. Don’t expect me to thank you for coming to see me, taking me out, giving me a massage or caring about me. That’s what you’re supposed to do as my man. The NERVE of some people! I should be thankful that you did what you’re supposed to do? That’s like me going to my job and putting in the minimal amount of work expecting to be praised and given a raise. GTF outta here! SMH
January 14, 2011 at 4:23 pm
Lordy… this right here is a mouthful!!! I agree, don’t sign up for a role and not know the description nor expectations. Friends tend to forget, they have a duty to fulfill and its not to just sulk in the title. smh Spouse as well.
January 14, 2011 at 9:46 pm
totally agree. Now can I get a raise?
January 15, 2011 at 1:09 am
Haven’t heard this acronym before. Is SMH – Shaking My Head? 😀
yes, and I too think people need to do what they “claim to be,” without hoping for something in return.
January 17, 2011 at 1:48 pm
Yes Vimal SMH is shaking my head LOL. You hit it right on the nose 🙂
January 15, 2011 at 2:03 am
Yes Yes Yes!! I agree totally but don’t get annoyed just see who these people are and accept them for who they are. I have to do this with my friends too. I evaluate what I can and cannot ask of them. I know we want people to do as we would but their not because some people are just plain ole selfish. Learn what acceptance of a person is and if you are not ready or willing to deal with them. Then please break that branch from your tree.
Blessings and Love you Boo!!